Saturday, December 31, 2011

Priming - Change Your 2012

New York University psychologist John Bargh conducted experiments on unsuspecting graduates. One involved a scrambled-sentence test. One group of students received a test sprinkled with rude words like disturb, bother and intrude. Another group had polite words like respect, considerate, and yield. The subjects thought they were taking tests measuring intelligence, but the word trend primed them subconsciously.

After taking the test, the students were asked to walk down the hall and talk to a person about their next assignment. When they arrived they found the person engaged in a conversation. The goal was to see how long it would take students to interrupt. Turns out the group who just read rude words interrupted, on average, after five minutes. But 82 percent of those who had read polite words never interrupted at all.

The effect is what Mark Batterson calls "priming." Our minds are subconsciously primed by everything that is happening all the time. Another study was done where two groups of students had to answer forty-two questions from the Trivial Pursuit game. Just before answering, one group was told to contemplate and write down what it be like to be a university professor. The other group was told to think about soccer. The professor group got 55.6% of the questions right. The soccer group? 42.6%.

One thing this all means is that your entire day is influenced (even if you don't realize it) by how you start your day, by what you "prime" your mind with. And that's why it's critical that we start our day by reading the Bible. Tomorrow starts a new year, and your 2012 will be drastically better if you start each day by reading the Bible. We have a brand new Bible Reading Plan (you can download it at www.vervecatalysts.org; click on "Bible Reading Plan" in the menu on top) and there's nothing you could do better for yourself than decide to follow it throughout 2012. It will take you about 10 minutes a day, but it will impact every other minute of your day. And we need that. So let's do it.

Friday, December 30, 2011

this weekend @ VERVE

A "tribe" is a group of people who are bonded together, and this week we begin a new series called, "The Tribe."  We're going to explore exactly who we are as a church.  What are some of the things we're characterized by and passionate about?  And, probably most important for you, what does it matter to you?  How does it impact your life?  Not only will this series help you to better understand Verve, but you'll also more fully understand what it means to follow Jesus and be a part of His body, the church.

This week we'll talk about being a risk-taking tribe, and you'll learn the secret of overcoming fear in your life so you can take risks and do great things for God.

This week we'll also be making the biggest announcement yet in the history of our church.  Seriously, you don't want to miss it!

And remember: No 10:05 service on Sunday!!!  Sleep in and come at 11:35, or on Monday night.

Thursday, December 29, 2011

Favorite Songs of 2011

Here are a few of my favorite songs from 2011:
  1. "Sail" by Awolnation
  2. "10,000 Reasons" by Matt Redman
  3. "Able" by Needtobreathe
  4. "Restless" Switchfoot
  5. "Hey, Hey, Hey (We're All Gonna Die)" by Jack's Mannequin
  6. "Set Fire to the Rain" by Adele
  7. "Search My Heart" by Hillsong United
  8. "Monster" by Kanye West
  9. "The War Inside" by Switchfoot
  10. "Changing" by The Airborne Toxic Event
  11. "Dark Horses" by Switchfoot
  12. "Loney Boy" by The Black Keys
  13. "Let Me Feel Your Light Shine" by the David Crowder Band
  14. "Help Is On The Way" by Rise Against
  15. "My Body" by Young the Giant
  16. "Rochester" by Matt Kearney
  17. "Country Song" by Seether
  18. "Someone Like You" by Adele
  19. "Tonight" by Seethe
  20. "Shake Me Down" by Cage the Elephant
Honorable mention:  "Walk" by Foo Fighters, "Drive All Night" by Needtobreathe, "Animal" by Neon Trees.

What were some of your favorite songs of 2011?

Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Favorite CDs of 2011

I don't buy a ton of CDs -- I'm just too cheap, so more often I'll just buy a song or two off of them -- but here were my top favorites of 2011:
  1. New Blood, Peter Gabriel
  2. The Reckoning, Needtobreathe
  3. People and Things, Jack's Mannequin
  4. Vice Verses, Switchfoot
  5. 21, Adele
  6. Monster, Monster, The Almost
  7. Young Love, Matt Kearney
  8. My Beautiful, Dark, Twisted Fantasy, Kanye West
  9. Wasting Light, Foo Fighters
What were your favorite CDs of 2011?

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

VERVE Happs

Christmas Eve was great at Verve.  Condensing into two services (versus our regular three) gave the room lots of energy.  Lots of fun and laughter, rockin' Christmas songs, and a message that hopefully made the true meaning of Christmas as clear as can be.  All that and a goldfish swimming around on stage during the service - doesn't get much better than that.

Around my house it was a crazy week.  Family in town visiting.  One day of my daughter throwing up and one day of my son throwing up.  In the middle of all that we went and saw the new Michael Jackson Cirque show Immortal.  (Only $35!)  Not a Michael fan, but the show was cool.

Hope you all had a great Christmas.  See you this Sunday (but only at 11:35!) or Monday night.  We're starting a new series and making a huge announcement.  No joke - don't miss it.

Monday, December 26, 2011

Remember...

Hope You Had a Great Christmas
and
- if you're a Verver -
remember, no service tonight.

Sunday, December 25, 2011

Merry Christmas, And...


Merry Christmas
and - if you're a Verver -
remember, no services today.

Saturday, December 24, 2011

Favorite TV Shows of 2011

My favorite TV shows of 2011?  Looking throughout the entire year, here they are my top ten:
  1. Friday Night Lights
  2. Mad Men
  3. 30 Rock
  4. Dexter
  5. Parks and Recreation
  6. How I Met Your Mother
  7. Top Chef
  8. Survivor
  9. The X-Factor
  10. Next Iron Chef; Food Network Star; Chopped
Show I'm sad is no longer on the list: The Office. Just hasn't been as funny the last couple seasons.
Show I don't watch but bet I'd love: Breaking Bad.

What were your favorite TV shows of 2011?

Friday, December 23, 2011

this weekend @ VERVE

 
This week we have NO services on Sunday morning, and NO services on Monday evening, but two amazing services on Saturday night. Our Christmas Eve services are at 3:35 and 5:05 and will feature a mix of the rockin’ fun that is typical Verve, along with a little feel-good Christmas tradition.

We think every week is a good week to invite your friends to Verve, but this is the perfect day to do it. Most people are more open to going to church on Christmas Eve than at almost any other time. So invite everyone you know! They’ll have a great time, and thank you for it later.

See ya Saturday (and not Sunday or Monday!).

Thursday, December 22, 2011

Favorite Movies of 2011

My favorite movies of the 2011? Well, it was a bad year for movies. My favorite movie of 2011 would have come in 5th, maybe 6th, in 2010.  But here's the list, with my top three almost interchangeable:
  1. The Descendants
  2. The Help
  3. Moneyball
  4. We Bought a Zoo
  5. Super 8
  6. Crazy, Stupid, Love
  7. Of Gods and Men 
  8. Bridesmaids
  9. Rango
  10. Drive
  11. The Muppets
  12. Win Win
  13. The Lincoln Lawyer 
  14. 50/50
  15. Limitless
  16. Horrible Bosses
Movies I wish I had seen: Cedar Rapids,  My Idiot Brother,  The Artist,  The Tree Of Life.

What were your favorite movies of 2011?

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Alien LIke

I fly kind of a lot. In our first year in Vegas I flew out of the airport 23 times, and in a typical year will fly once or twice a month to somewhere I'm speaking.  However, until a few months ago, I had never flown somewhere and back in the same day.

It is a bizarre experience.

It feels like you're naked.  Something about going into an airport and walking to your plane without a suitcase gives you this constant sensation that you're missing something.  I couldn't stop thinking, "Wait, what did I forget? What am I missing?"

It feels like you're an alien, or maybe a time traveler.  It's hard to explain, but there's something about flying out of your city, going to a different city, doing something in that city, and then coming back to your city in the same day that is weird. The first time I did it I flew back into town around 1 p.m. There was still most of the day left. And there was this odd feeling of, "You people have no idea where I've been. I have seen things you can't imagine. There are other worlds out there that you've yet to experience..."

Tuesday, December 20, 2011

VERVE Happs ... Proud

I am so proud of this church.  This has been a pretty remarkable week...
  • On Friday I got to be part of the group that delivered our presents to Dean Petersen Elementary. Dean Petersen is a local grammar school in a poverty-stricken area. For 85% of the students, English is not their first language. 100% of the students are on free or reduced lunches. It's pretty bad. And most of them wouldn't get a Christmas present, except for Verve. Because of the generosity of Ververs ... well, I'm going to announce what happened (did we reach our goal of 260 gifts? didn't we?) on Christmas Eve. But I'll tell you this: Seeing the expressions on the kid's faces when they received their presents was unbelievable.
  • On Sunday we hosted the Cupcake Girls Christmas Party. About 30 girls who work in strip clubs came to be loved on and spoiled with a spa day theme. What a cool thing. And though people from around the country donated funds to make it happen, and we even had volunteers drive and fly into town to help, most of the effort came from Ververs.
  • And then ... this week a 10-year-old in Las Vegas committed suicide. One of the families in our church is connected to their family, and so we went into action. The family was struggling to put together the funeral and meal afterwards, so we provided the food for the meal. A bunch of Verve people cooked and bought items.
At Verve, we call all that being guerrilla lovers. The idea is that we want to ambush people with the love of God. The cool thing is that when most people show up at Verve they're broken and hurting, and most are still struggling today. And yet we don't use that as an excuse to not care and make sacrifices for others. That is awesome. And I am really proud to be a part of this church.

Monday, December 19, 2011

Vince Recommends...

I have a never-ending quest: To make your life the best it can possibly be in every way. This is why about once a week I recommend things, like new types of Oreos to eat.

Today I want to share secrets on choosing your seat on a Southwest flight. Southwest employs a first come, first choice method of seating. The trick is to check-in on-line as soon as you can, which is 24 hours prior to your flight. If you get an early choice, you want to pick an aisle seat as close to the front of the plane as possible.

But what if you don't get an early choice and all the best seats are taken? Let me help:
  1. The middle seats will be the only one's available. For some reason, most people won't take a middle seat towards the front of the plane. Maybe they're holding out hope that there's a better seat towards the back, or are embarrassed to interrupt the special people sitting towards the front. But not you! Take the middle seat in the closest row to the front, other than the first row. (The first row has no place to put your stuff, and no tray.
  2. But do not sit in the middle seat next to someone who seems eager to have you sit next to them. Look at who your seat neighbor will be. If they're smiling, avoid them like curdled milk. They will talk to you the entire flight. You want to sit next to someone who doesn't want you to sit next to them. That's the perfect neighbor.
  3. And do not sit in the middle seat next next to someone who is very overweight. I'm sorry, and I say this as a person who has spent most of his life at least a little overweight. But it's true. I recently flew between a husband and wife, each of whom could not get the seatbelt around their body, and needed seatbelt extenders. Not a pleasant flight for me. Remember that scene in Star Wars when Luke was almost crushed in the garbage compactor?
That advice is gold baby. Hope it helps. Happy traveling.

Sunday, December 18, 2011

Verve Worship Songs

At Verve, we're very particular about the songs we use for worship. We want songs that allow Christians to worship God, but are completely understandable to non-Christians. Those who are new and not quite there yet may not agree with all the lyrics, but they should be able to understand all of it.

Below is a list of songs we use, or are considering using in the near future. If you're a pastor or church planter, may be helpful to you. If you're a Verver, you could check out some of our future songs...

1.       Dirty and Left Out, The Almost
2.       Amazing, Because It is, The Almost
3.       Awful Direction, The Almost
4.       Prodigal, One Republic
5.       Everything, Lifehouse
6.       Take Me Away, Lifehouse
7.       Typical, Mutemath
8.       Control, Mutemath
9.       Okay, Mutemath
10.    How He Loves, David Crowder Band
11.    My Hope, David Crowder Band
12.    Can I Lie Here, David Crowder Band
13.    Something Beautiful, Needtobreathe
14.    Let Us Love, Needtobreathe
15.    You Are Here, Needtobreathe
16.    Satisfy, Tenth Avenue North
17.    I’m Not Alright, Sanctus Real
18.    Break Free, Hillsong United
19.    Your Love Is Strong, Jon Foreman
20.    Rescue, Seabird
21.    Iridescent, Linkin Park
22.    Restless, Switchfoot
23.    Search My Heart, Hillsong United
24.    Beautiful Things, Gungor
25.    You Never Let Go, Mat Redman
26.    Awful Direction, The Almost
27.    Escape, Rush of Fools
28.    Worlds Apart, Jars of Clay
29.    God of This City, Chris Tomlin
30.    Never Let Go, David Crowder Band
31.    Break Me Down, Tenth Avenue North
32.    Lift Us Up To Fall, Tenth Avenue North
33.    Restless, Seabird
34.    Breathe Into Me, Red
35.    Pieces, Red
36.    Break Me Down, Red
37.    On Fire, Switchfoot
38.    Be My Escape, Reliant K
39.    Be Healed, Paper Route
40.    Dance On Our Graves, Paper Route
41.    Brighter Day, Gungor
42.    I Will Live For You, Aaron Pelsue Band
43.    Surely We Can Change, David Crowder Band

Saturday, December 17, 2011

Change I Can Believe In!

You're happily watching TV with the volume perfectly set when the commercial comes on. Suddenly your ears hurt, the baby wakes up and starts crying, your wife is yelling in, "Why do you need to have the TV so loud? Turn it down!" and the neighbors are calling the cops on your disturbance of the peace. And no one seems to understand, it's not you, it was the stupid commercial, which is 50% louder than the show.

No more my friends! In the best news coming out of Washington in decades, the FCC announced this week that new regulations will require broadcasters to maintain constant volume levels. Unfortunately the order doesn't go into effect until next December, but at least it's coming.

We may not have cured world hunger or achieved world peace, but at least I can have peace watching TV. And for that I am grateful. Thank you government.

Friday, December 16, 2011

this weekend @ VERVE

 
Don’t miss this week at Verve, because we’re continuing our great new series AKA God. We’re learning that God goes by different names in the Bible, and like a puzzle, each name helps us to see another piece of who God is. Together we’re seeing a bigger picture of our big God, and understanding the big difference He can play in our lives.

This week I'll be teaching on the name Jehovah Nissi. You don’t want to miss it.

Thursday, December 15, 2011

Absolute Transparency

I've always had the philosophy that a pastor has to share everything about himself. There's nothing that can be hidden.

My philosophy came to a test recently when I realized that in the message I was giving, it would be helpful for me to share that I've been diagnosed with attachment disorder. I've also been diagnosed with ADD, and I shared that as well, but that didn't feel like such a big deal. But saying I have attachment disorder felt like it was a bigger bomb to drop. I don't know, I would just want my pastor to be a healthy person, and a person who has attachment disorder doesn't sound healthy to me.

So I debated whether to share it, for about a minute. And then I decided, as I always do, that I had no choice, I had to share it. Why? Because if I don't share everything about me, then people aren't really following me, they're following an image of me that I project. And if there was something I shared that led people to no longer be willing to follow me, then they shouldn't be following me anyway.

If I hide my attachment disorder from you, you're not following Vince, because Vince is a guy with attachment disorder. And if share it and you decide not to follow me, well you shouldn't be following me.

It's not the most convenient philosophy to have - when you're the person who is doing the sharing, and it's often stuff you'd rather not share - but it's right. And right wins over convenient.

Wednesday, December 14, 2011

Artistic Control


Recently watched the documentary Pearl Jam 20 by Cameron Crowe (I love you Cameron Crowe!), and I thought it had a ton of lessons for church planters. Here’s one…

In the early years of Pearl Jam, guitarist Stone Gossard was the creative force behind the band, with a little help from Jeff Ament. The two each contributed to coming up with ideas and writing songs. But then it became increasingly obvious that Eddie Vedder was actually the one bringing the most to the table. Gossard talks in the documentary about, “fighting over scraps of artistic control, then you meet someone with so much creative energy your arguments become pointless.”

I think a lot of pastors, and especially church planters, view themselves as the creative force behind the church. And there may be a few others who come along with some good ideas. And there may even be a little power struggle over who’s ideas will win the day. But the best thing that can happen is to realize that God Himself is the one bringing the most to the table, and that He has so much creative energy that the wise choice is to hand over artistic control to Him.

So what would it look like for you to recognize God’s creative energy?
And what would it look like for you to give Him artistic control?

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

VERVE Happs

Lots going on this last week at Verve, like...
  • We continued our AKA God series this weekend with "El Roi" - the "God who sees."
  • I had dental surgery this week and wasn't sure how I'd be doing on Sunday, so I took the weekend off of speaking. It also gave me a great opportunity to volunteer in the Children's Ministry. If I didn't speak every Sunday, I'd volunteer with the kids every Sunday. There's nothing more important that happens in any church than helping kids to love God and love people. They have their entire lives in front of them, if you can give them a great foundation early on - that's a game changer. I'm not sure why everyone doesn't want to volunteer in Children's Ministry. If you want to, and aren't, let us know. We're starting a new class in January and will need more volunteers!
  • It's cool that I can take a week off and have Tommy speak. So thankful for that. And he did a great job teaching us about the God who sees our sin, our pain, and our potential.
  • Although ... on Monday Tommy was so sick he couldn't do it, so I filled in last minute.  I've never done that before.  Kinda cool, makes you feel like a closer on a baseball team.
  • We had a mission team from Palm Valley Church with us from Thursday to Sunday. They worked hard, were awesome, and seemed to go home really psyched. Want to bring your church on a mission trip to Verve?  Let us know?
  • We had our Middle Schoolers at a Winter Camp this weekend. I think 13 kids and 3 adults went to the mountains in Arizona. Sounds like they had an amazing time.
  • People have been asking if we're going to have another Super Bowl Party this year. Yup.
  • I am SO excited for the announcement we're going to make in our services on January 1 and 2. Plan on being at Verve one of those days!

Monday, December 12, 2011

Vince Recommends...


Second week in a row recommending a movie, and a lot of movies in general lately, but The Descendants is worth recommending.

If you like explosions and music montages and fast-moving plots, it may not be the movie for you.  But if you like tender, raw stories and emotional, rich dialogue, see The Descendants.

Kind of like the Bible, it's the story of paradise ... lost.  And of people desperately trying to hold on to it, restore it, recreate it.

Not my favorite Alexander Payne movie (he also did About Schmidt, Election, Sideways) but it's close.

Sunday, December 11, 2011

Music For Church Planting

This is kinda cool:  Bethany Solyntjes is a singer. She and her husband are on staff with a church plant in Michigan.

Bethany has just put out a Christmas CD (and she's got a beautiful voice) to help raise money for her salary at the church plant, and she's giving 10% of the sales to another plant their church is starting. (Which their church is doing even though their church is less than a year old - sweet.)

Check out her CD here, and consider buying it. You'll have a great new Christmas CD and be supporting church planting.

Saturday, December 10, 2011

Announcing: Vault 2012

This year we did our second Vault Conference. We're taking it year-by-year, trying to determine if this conference is needed, and really helping people in their mission of connecting people who are far from God to Him through Jesus. We took a bit of time after this year's conference to decide if we do it again in 2012, or even whether we multiply it - as we've had offers of doing our conference in other parts of the country.

And we've decided ... we're going to do it again in 2012, just once, in Las Vegas, October 15-17.

As we did last year, we're going to have some guest speakers.  Jud Wilhite has agreed to speak for us in 2012, which is awesome.  We're also going to hear from Scott Bloyer, who I invited because of the great things he's doing in his church plant in Denver, including reaching a bunch of MMA fighters.  I think we'll have a few other speaker announcements coming soon.

We're going to change a few things next year.  We've gotten amazing reviews both years, but have learned a few things we can improve.  For instance, next year:  (1) No repeat material (because we have people who are coming back every year),  (2) A few breakout sessions for specialized learning opportunities,  (3) More chances to network with other pastors, and  (4) We're lowering the price back down to $100 (which it was the first year).  We figure the economy is hurting everyone, so let's make this as cheap as we can, and if we don't make much (or any) money, oh well.

And ... you can register starting now.  So go do it.

Friday, December 9, 2011

this weekend @ VERVE


This Sunday and Monday we continue our brand new series: AKA God. We’re exploring some of the names God is called in the Bible. Each of those names grows our understanding of who God is and what our relationship with Him can be like.

This week we’ll learn that in the Bible God is called El Roi. No, it’s not the kid on The Jetsons, that’s Elroy. El Roi means “The God who sees.” Don’t miss this weekend where you’ll see how that matters in your life.

Thursday, December 8, 2011

Criticism


Recently watched the documentary Pearl Jam 20 by Cameron Crowe (I love you Cameron Crowe!), and I thought it had a ton of lessons for church planters. Here’s one…

Pearl Jam and Nirvana were both getting their start at the same time and in the same city. Kurt Cobain, lead singer for Nirvana, publicly criticized Pearl Jam saying they were too mainstream. And you know where that goes, right? It leads to bad blood, a war between the bands, insults flying. Except, it didn’t. Pearl Jam took the criticism, and said it helped to make them a better band. Kind of amazing.

Church planters often get hit with lots of criticism. “The music is too loud.” “You’re not really preaching the gospel.” “We don’t need another church in this town.” “You don’t have the programs I’m looking for.” “You don’t take God seriously enough.” “Your teaching isn’t deep enough.”

And you know where that goes, right? You get hurt, then angry. Then you get defensive, and self-righteous, and angry. You deny and justify. But what if you took the criticism, looked for what was true in it, and used it to help make you a better pastor who leads a better church?

That would be kind of amazing.

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Consistency, Please

I avoid the topic of politics. This post is not about politics, though it will seem that way. It is about hypocrisy and inconsistency in so many Christians.

A bunch of Christians were backers of Herman Cain, despite the fact that he's been accused of multiple cases of sexual harassment and an affair. Now that Cain is out of the race, many Christians are jumping on the bandwagon of Newt Gingrich's campaign. Newt has committed adultery on two of his three wives. Many of the people supporting Newt are the same Christians who screamed for the impeachment of Bill Clinton because of his sexual improprieties. (An impeachment that was driven by Newt Gingrich while he was in the middle of an affair himself.)

Does character matter in a leader? I guess it's debatable. Some argue that a man can lead effectively regardless of his personal integrity. Personally, I disagree. Given the choice, I'd rather have a man of character and integrity even if I don't agree with all his policies, than a man who I agree with all his policies but doesn't have character and integrity.

I guess it's debatable, and I suppose everyone has to make that decision for themselves, but make the decision and be consistent about it. To demand Clinton's impeachment, but then support Gingrich's candidacy is hypocritically absurd.

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

VERVE Happs

This week we launched our new series: AKA God in which we're looking at some of the names of God in the Bible. We started this week with "Yahweh." God is I AM, and He is the answer to all the questions we've been asking.

We introduced a new worship song, one of my favorites, "Signature of Divine" by Needtobreathe. That song has some killer lyrics.

We've got about 14 middle school Ververs (including my son) going to winter camp this weekend. They're gonna have a blast. And freeze, I heard it was 14 degrees at the camp today. These Vegas kids aren't equipped for stuff like that.

Our Christmas gift drive for the 3rd Graders of Dean Peterson Elementary continues. Do you know the percentage of kids at Dean Peterson who are free or reduced lunches? 100%. Did you know that the school has a whole list of kids who attend, and are homeless? Most of these kids won't receive a present if it's not from us. This upcoming weekend is our last chance to bring them in, so please be generous and bring in some wrapped board games or card games that would be good for an 8-year-old.

Vivalaverve.

Monday, December 5, 2011

Got One?

I'm trying to come up with some scenes from movies (or TV shows) where someone invites a person to church (or tries to share their faith) in a lame, or mean, or inappropriate way.

Think Mandy Moore in Saved yelling, "I'm FILLED with Christ's love!" and throwing the Bible at the girl.

If you know of any such scenes, can you let me know in the comments section?

Thanks.

Vince Recommends...

Took the kids to see The Muppets.

If you have any kind of Muppets nostaligia, it's fun. Or if you have kids, it's worth taking them to.

We've watched a few of the old Muppet movies with our kids, and this one is way funnier. Jason Segal does a great job of getting humor from the human characters, which seemed to mostly be missing from previous one's.

And yes, I think it's very odd that I'm suggesting and reviewing a Muppet movie. What has my life become?!

Sunday, December 4, 2011

20


Recently watched the documentary Pearl Jam 20 by Cameron Crowe (I love you Cameron Crowe!), and I thought it had a ton of lessons for church planters. Here’s one…

The Pearl Jam documentary is called “20” because the band has been putting out music for twenty years. And other than a few changes at drummer, it’s been the same guys all the way through. That’s remarkable.

And that’s what I hope for with Verve. It would be so cool if in 20 years I’m still getting to work with Jake and Tommy and Kandyss, if Holly is still leading our Student Ministry and Joy the Cupcake Girls, if our key volunteer leaders are still around. God may have other plans, and I’m open to them, but selfishly I hope our team remains constant for a long time.

What about your team? Do you have the right people? Do you enjoy working with them? Do you want it to stay together? Are you making it the kind of work environment that people would want to be a part of forever?

And if you work well together and stay together, who knows what you can accomplish.

Friday, December 2, 2011

this weekend @ VERVE

This week we launch a brand new series: AKA God.
 
In the Bible, God is referred to by a variety of names. And each of those names gives us illuminating insight into who God really is, and who He can be in our lives. In this series we’ll explore a few of those names of God. You’ll know God in ways you never have before, and learn how that can grow not only your understanding of Him, but your relationship with Him as well. This week we begin with the name Yahweh.

Thursday, December 1, 2011

The Birth of No


Recently watched the documentary Pearl Jam 20 by Cameron Crowe (I love you Cameron Crowe!), and I thought it had a ton of lessons for church planters. Here’s one…

When Pearl Jam first started getting big more opportunities presented themselves. Thinking hey had to take advantage of them, they said yes to everything. One yes was to play at a party for the release of a movie. The party was a disaster. One of the band members said, “At some point you have to say no. That was the birth of no.”

When you start a church you can get bombarded with requests. “Why don’t we start a softball team?” “Could we start a ministry to the homeless people in the area?” “Can I put my Mary Kay business cards on the Welcome Center table?” “Would you be willing to support our ministry to the Burmese refugees?” “Could I start a drama team?” “Could you counsel me?” “Why don’t we have a Women’s Ministry like my old church?” And you’re feeling so desperate, you’ve got to make this thing work, that there’s a powerful temptation to say yes to everything. But at some point you have to say no.

What will be your birth of no? How will you determine what you’ll say no to? If you don’t have some pre-decided guidelines, it will be way too easy to say yes to everything. But sometimes you’ve gotta say no.